It’s time for you to tap into your limitless potential – through healthy limits….
When you think about Boundaries – do the words ‘selfish’, ‘last resort’, and ‘walls’ come to mind?
Have you always thought that boundaries are only for problematic relationships and for cutting people out?
Do you struggle with boundaries because you’re afraid that you’ll just cause conflict, division and distance in your relationships?
Let’s get straight to the point. Most of everything you’ve ever heard or seen about boundaries is WRONG. It’s inaccurate. It’s ineffective. It’s counterproductive. And quite simply, it’s causing you to miss out on experiencing deep connection in your life:
Deep connection with others, with yourself and with your Creator.
When you’re a chronic people pleaser…..
Not having healthy limits can leave you feeling anxious, in doubt and struggling to handle other peoples behaviour. It’s can also cause you to literally feel sick and tired.
And most importantly, not having healthy limits is standing in the way of you living your purpose
How do I know this?
Because, like you, I’ve been there too.
I used to be a chronic people pleaser – I really believed that having peace and love in my relationships meant zero boundaries and giving into every demand, every request. And ironically, constantly giving in didn’t always make the other person happy in the way I thought it would. The stress of it all lead to a chronic illness and constant anxiety.
It wasn’t until I discovered and set healthy boundaries, that I saw a massive shift in my life. And in my mental and physical health.
The biggest shift was in my relationships, which to my surprise, actually became better with boundaries.
If you look online, you’ll find plenty of people telling you to just ‘be strong’, ‘tell them off’ or maybe even…’make sabr, overlook it and be the bigger person’.
But if you’re here, chances are that none of these approaches is working for you.
Being rude and dismissive is just not your thing.
You’re not the type to ‘call people out’ on their bad behaviour or be rude and disrespectful.
Family means something to you.
Relationships mean alot to you.
But you’re also tired of just ignoring certain behaviours, and you’re tired of how it affects your other relationships.
Most of all you’re tired of how it drains your energy and stands in the way of you living your purpose.
Most online experts, books, courses and coaches will tell you :
‘just be you and the world will adapt’
‘stop caring what people think’
‘cut out toxic people’…
and that’s how you’ll find peace.
And that’s not to criticise what they’re saying – for some, that approach might work.
But you might be wired differently.
If you’re reading this, then you’re someone who cares deeply.
You want to be there for others, love them, care for them, support them.
You give from your heart.
And so you think, that being this person means that setting boundaries just can’t work for you.
Or: you’ve tried, and it has NOT gone well.
You feel guilty and utterly selfish when you try to set limits.
I’ve worked with thousands of clients and students who used to believe that boundaries meant being rude, harsh, and shutting others out.
What they discovered instead, was that balanced boundaries actually make your relationships better.
Including your relationship with your Creator.
Boundaries are the doorway to deep spiritual connection.
To internal and external harmony.
I’ve discovered and taught the exact principles, tactics, and healing tools that have helped me, my clients and my students, to create relationships that bring them peace and connection.
All through the power of balanced boundaries.
BOUNDARIES ARE MORE THAN JUST LEARNING HOW TO SAY NO
What most people think boundaries are
- LAST RESORT IN DIFFICULT RELATIONSHIPS
- PUTTING YOUR FOOT DOWN
- CUTTING OUT DIFFICULT PEOPLE
- CREATE EVEN MORE CONFLICT & DISCONNECTION
- PUT EVERYONE ELSE LAST AND NOT CARING
What boundaries actually allow for
- ALLOWS YOU TO TAKE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP AND MAKE IT BETTER
- DEALING WITH DIFFICULT PEOPLE WITH INTEGRITY
- THE FOUNDATION FOR DEEP CONNECTION
- ALLOWS YOU TO SUPPORT OTHERS AND TAKE NURTURE YOURSELF
- WILL BENEFIT YOUR LOVED ONES TOO
You might think that boundaries is a last resort for when things are really bad, or something you need mainly with toxic people. And yes, that’s ONE of the reasons for boundaries.
But it’s so much more than that.
Boundaries can actually help you to take a good relationship and make it better.
And the best part is: the EARLIER YOU SET BOUNDARIES, THE BETTER THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE.
“I wish I knew this years ago when I was starting out!”
This is the feedback I receive most often. Whether it’s in their business, their marriage, with family, in laws – most of my students wish they had access to this information when they first started out.
Because they recognise how much better their relationships would’ve been today, how much stress they would’ve avoided, had they implemented it earlier.
The good news is: it’s never too late – or too early – for healthy boundaries and all the benefits it will bring into your life, and your relationships with loved ones, colleagues, everyone really!
You might think that boundaries is a last resort for when things are really bad, or something you need mainly with toxic people. And yes, that’s ONE of the reasons for boundaries.
But it’s so much more than that.
Boundaries can actually help you to take a good relationship and make it better.
And the best part is: the EARLIER YOU SET BOUNDARIES, THE BETTER THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE.
“I wish I knew this years ago when I was starting out!”
This is the feedback I receive most often. Whether it’s in their business, their marriage, with family, in laws – most of my students wish they had access to this information when they first started out.
Because they recognise how much better their relationships would’ve been today, how much stress they would’ve avoided, had they implemented it earlier.
The good news is: it’s never too late – or too early – for healthy boundaries and all the benefits it will bring into your life, and your relationships with loved ones, colleagues, everyone really!
“Before the program, I struggled with unhealthy patterns of communication. I’ve now reached a stage where I can communicate my needs to someone in a manner that’s not insulting in any way, and more importantly, I can actually receive constructive criticism without going on defense. I am celebrating being able to have discussions with my husband about any issues that arise without arguments. We can discuss a way forward or a possible solution should the issue arise again. This is a BIG WIN for me!
L. Vawda
“Zaahida has helped me overcome the biggest challenges in my life. If you want to make a change – she’s your girl! I truly believe Zaahida is a league of her own.”
Siddiqa Soofie
Entrepreneur & Mum of 2
ENROL ME IN!
Boundaries create a foundation of safety and connection, not just for you – but the other person as well.
By using my Boundaries Blueprint, you’ll master boundaries to the point that others don’t even realise that you’re setting boundaries!
With the Boundaries Blueprint, you’ll have the skills to know how to set boundaries so that can create connection and harmony – without having to resort to your old people-pleasing tendencies!
“This was groundbreaking – level up stuff!”
Student of Live Inspired Academy
“I couldn’t believe it! My brother is normally so pushy and difficult! He didn’t even realise that I was setting boundaries with him. I felt completely at ease because I knew I was doing things the way I was comfortable to.”
B
Businessman
And here’s the best part:
As you master boundaries, you start to access more of your energy, your creativity and productivity.
So many people ask me:
“How do I find my purpose?”
And my answer is always the same:
Set healthy boundaries with yourself and others, and then you’ll have access to the energy and potential that’s within you, that will lead you to your purpose.
Because, let’s face it:
HOW DO YOU FIND – LET ALONE, PURSUE, YOUR PURPOSE – WHEN YOU DON’T EVEN HAVE ENERGY TO FACE THE DAY, because you’re so bogged down by demands from family, clients, colleagues, in laws, and everyone else?
“I have set clear boundaries. I am working smarter. My confidence has increased and this has helped my client base grow.”
S. Bhyat
Business Owner
“My initial expectations of the course was to learn how to ‘cut out’ my ‘toxic people’ in a nice way, avoiding interactions, etc. The biggest surprise was seeing the relationships grow healthier as a result. My interactions with the person have become less intimidating, more respectful, and to be honest, less triggering, even when they do display tendencies that would previously drive me crazy.”
A. Hassim
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Boundaries aren’t just about saying “No”
They’re about knowing
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What to say no to – based on YOUR values and needs
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How to say it in a way that resonates with you and feels authentic to you
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Whilst taking your needs AND the needs of those you care about into consideration
So that you can say YES to more of what matters to you
Boundaries allow you to create internal peace, whilst still supporting and taking care of your loved ones.
It’s about serving your clients in the best ways, whilst still taking care of your own energy.
When you understand what truly works and what doesn’t, everything changes ….
I’m ready to share everything that I’ve learned about the subconscious mind, trauma healing, Quantum Physics, Psychology, Neuroscience, Energetics, Sufi Wisdom – from utilising it all on myself and my clients and students over the last 7 years…
So that you can fast track your way to experiencing the power of boundaries.
The world needs what you have to offer – and boundaries are going to be your stepping stone to fulfilling that purpose.
I have a very different approach when it comes to setting boundaries. One that’s much more effective, sustainable, and respects your values and wiring. Maybe you’ve heard that each human is designed and wired differently. Which is why those books and coaches who tell you to to just ‘be strong and say no’ are not clicking for you.
You may have thought “well that must mean that I just don’t have what it takes to set boundaries”.
Not true.
What it does mean is that you haven’t found a way to leverage the power of boundaries, in a way that fits into YOUR WIRING, YOUR value system.
My approach to boundaries is based on a unique blueprint that involves,:
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Unlearning old ways that don’t serve you – and replacing them with practical tools that DO work
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Rewiring your subconscious mind (the part of your mind that lies underneath the surface and is responsible for your decisions, emotions and your experience of life)
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Releasing the beliefs and emotions that are getting in the way of you having healthy relationships
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Reconnecting with your Creator and Divine mercy and strength
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Letting go of the patterns that are keeping you out of alignment with your purpose
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Tapping into the limitless potential of the REAL you – your fitrah, your purpose..
With the Boundaries Revolution, boundaries become a natural part of who you are, and the gateway to creating deeper connection to your Creator and your limitless potential.
You were open, welcoming and accepting to all our different levels. The interaction was great with the other mentees. Your tone as a mentor was amazing and had me feeling comfortable at all times. I never had a fear of judgement or being compared to others in the group.
F KajeeBusiness Owner
My relationships are far better. I’ve become more understanding and am not afraid to confront issues that I would or normally ignored and let eat me up on the inside. I’m much more confident because I now don’t take things personally. I’m no longer afraid to stand up for myself in a healthy way
F Pandor
I was afraid that I wouldn’t be able to set boundaries or be this ‘new me’. Setting boundaries has changed everything for me at work. My colleagues have started to respect me and the decision we make as a team. At home our relationship with my family has created a stronger bond. My only regret is not doing this earlier in my life!
Z AmeerEducator
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What the Boundaries Revolution is NOT going to teach you
- HOW TO SHUT PEOPLE OUT
- USING BOUNDARIES AS WALLS
- JUST KNOWING THE RIGHT WORDS TO REGURIGITATE WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING HOW TO GO ABOUT SETTING A BOUNDARY
- TO BE DISRESPECTFUL TO DIFFICULT PEOPLE
- OVERLY COMPLEX STRATEGIES
What the Boundaries Revolution WILL MENTOR YOU THROUGH
- A BOUNDARIES PROCESS THAT’S A LEARNABLE SKILL – EVEN IF YOU’VE ALWAYS BEEN A CHRONIC PEOPLE PLEASER
- USING BOUNDARIES TO PROTECT YOUR ENERGY AND NURTURE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
- SCRIPTS THAT YOU CAN USE TO SET BOUNDARIES AND HOW TO DEVELOP THE SKILL OF KNOWING WHAT TO SAY IN DIFFERNT SITUATIONS
- PRACTICAL TOOLS THAT YOU CAN START IMPLEMENTING IMMEDIATELY
- THE ART OF BEING BOTH FIRM AND COMPASSIONATE
Here’s just some of what you’ll learn in the Boundaries Revolution Program
The Revolutionary Boundaries Blueprint to transform your relationships, become more productive, and make better decisions.
The step by step framework for setting boundaries – that actually works with difficult people too.
How to let go of self doubt so you can feel confident in your decisions, and how you set boundaries.
Overcoming the biggest mistakes that you don’t even know you’re making – that’s creating more stress and anxiety in all your relationships.
EXACT SCRIPTS of what to say to set boundaries, AND ALSO how to develop your skill of how to respond in different situations.
Unlearning old ways that don’t serve you and rewiring your subconscious mind to allow you to really integrate the practical steps you’re learning.
Practical steps to cultivating a space for deeper connection – whilst still honouring your own needs.
I WANT TO BE PART OF THE (R)EVOLUTION
Warning: Life will never be the same again.
If you do NOT want exponential growth, if you don’t want to progress, if you don’t want transformation – then this is NOT the program for you!
But: if there’s even a small part of you that resonates with what you’re reading here, then you’re ready for the program that will change how you live forever.
Do any of the following sound like you?
You’re not sure what’s ‘normal’ to say no to and where it’s ok to set boundaries in your life
You wonder if you give ‘too much’ – but giving any less just doesn’t feel authentic to you
Tired of feeling anxious about how other people might react to your boundaries?
Feeling stuck and like you don’t have control over your own life because you have to keep giving into others demands
Feel like some people take advantage of your giving nature?
Overwhelmed by the fear of making changes that will affect your relationships?
Have resentment built up from always giving in?
Need someone to make things simple? To show you the way? To prove to you that, YES, you can do it too?
Wondering how some people have it all together and still find time to pursue their purpose?
Want to experience what it feels like to feel fulfilled, have agency in your life and be able to make decisions confidently?
Want a deeper spiritual connection and relationship with your Creator, that’s not clouded by guilt and other peoples perceptions of you
Ready to step into the purposeful version of you!
If you answered YES to even one of the questions above, The Bondaries Revolution was created for you.
If you’re on this page right now, you’re ready for more.
You’re seeking more peace, more harmony, and deeper connection.
You just know that there’s a better way to live – but you’re not clear on the how.
My initial expectations of the course was to learn how to ‘cut out’ my ‘toxic people’ in a nice way, avoiding interactions.
The biggest surprise was seeing the relationship grow healthier as a result.
A Hassim
I learned self love and self care…I’ve also learned to validate myself without needing validation from others.
N. Randeree
I have always been a calm person, but since the course, I feel am more understanding and I feel more confident in my relationships
F Jogee
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Here’s a few ways in which you can benefit from the Boundaries Revolution:
- Boundaries are a critical tool to learn if you’re healing from a chronic illness
- The foundation of any fulfilling relationship
- Creates more compassion & understanding in your relationships
- The key to productivity and success in your professional life
- Keeps you out of resentment & bitterness
- Gives you the courage to live your truth
- Are the pathway to deeper spiritual connection
- Are the stepping stone to discovering your purpose
I have a very different approach when it comes to setting boundaries. One that’s more effective, more sustainable, way more attainable, and respects your unique wiring and value system.
Here’s What You Get When Invest In:
THE BOUNDARIES (R)EVOLUTION
9 Video Training Modules with step by step protocols of how to create actionable change. These are self study at your convenience
SPECIALISED ALIGNMENT PORTAL
Deep healing tools to release emotions, rewire your subconscious and more.
9 Transformational Workbooks with specialised exercises for deeper integration
7 Live 90 minute Q&A sessions, Hot Seats and specialised practical exercises to accelerate your progress. Replays available.
Accessible anywhere – completely online
Step by step frameworks to create effective boundaries
Exclusive Bonus Content to fast track your progress
Supportive community in a safe, non-judgemental environment.
This Is A Fit For You If You:
- You want to continue being a giving person – but you want to honour your limits and preserve your energy.
- Are ready to ditch the people pleasing – and create authentic, beneficial relationships.
- Want to develop the skillset and mindset that enables you to tap into your productivity.
- Are ready to create healthier relationships and experience fulfilling connection.
- Want the actual tools that will empower you to feel confident and certain when you’re setting boundaries
- Are ready for advanced boundary tools that work with difficult people too.
This Is Not For You If You:
- You want to continue playing victim and passing the buck onto others.
- Don’t actually want to change and you’re committed to holding onto the past and wallowing in bitterness.
- Aren’t open to new ideas and new ways of doing things.
- Are not prepared to take action based on what you’lll learn.
- Aren’t prepared to put in the work of completing the program.
Frequently Asked Questions
I’m already seeing a therapist / coach – is this still suitable for me?
That’s great and huge kudos to you for taking responsibility of your life!
If you’re already working with someone, this will be a wonderful complementary tool that will assist you on your journey. You will gain different perspectives and deeper understanding into yourself and your partner which can transform how you interact – especially during arguments.
I’m not in Durban – can I still register?
The wonderful thing is that this entire course is completely online – so that you can access it from anywhere, anytime!
You get lifetime access (lifetime of the program) so you can revisit the mdodules and replays as often as you want.
This is ONLY AVAILABLE UNTIL 5 MARCH 2021. After midnight on you will no longer be able to access it. Unfortunately you cannot join once enrollment closes.
What happens after I make payment?
Once you enrol, you will be sent an email with all the details you need. You will be kept updated via email and if you have any queries please contact us on support@liveinspired.co.za.
I’m not sure if I’m ready to commit to this yet – can I join later?
This is an exclusive offer ONLY available for Friday 27.11 & Saturday 28.11. Unfortunately once enrollment closes – no exceptions can be made.
My boundaries are pretty good – do I need this?
The best part about the program is that it meets you where you’re at. The further along you are in your self development journey, the deeper you can go in this mentorship.
This mentorship is an amazing process of deeper self discovery, that can help you make your good relationships better, and your difficult relationships easier. The training has practical tools that can ‘tweak’ the way you communicate and result in increased understanding, connection – and improve the overall quality of your relationships.
What do I do it I’m having an issue with accessing my course work?
You won’t have immediate access as course work begins on 15 March, and you will receive more details from 8 March onwards. We’ve designed the system to run as smoothly as possible. However in the unlikely event of you having any issues, you can contact our support team on admin@liveinspired.co.za.
Your satisfaction with our course is important to us. However, because of the extensive time, effort, preparation and care that is poured into this course, we have a no-refund policy. By using and/or purchasing any of our programs, products, services or program materials, you understand and agree that all sales are final and no refunds will be provided. By purchasing any of our programs you also adhere to our terms and conditions.
I’m in an abusive relationship – will this help me?
Unfortunately this is beyond the scope of this workshop. I would highly suggest reaching out for one on one intervention in your situation.
I’M READY FOR LESS CONFLICT & MORE CONNECTION!
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Rookaya
Attonery
“Working with Zaahida took me from feeling lost to being a stronger person who will not allow anyone to pull her down through manipulation. I have learned how to deal with challenges and I’ve regained my confidence again.”
W Moosa
Medical Professional
“Zaahida is a pillar of strength. She is vibrant, innovative, funny, non-judgmental. If I had to attach a price to working with her, I undoubtedly believe she has undervalued herself and her ability to assist people to travel the road to self discovery.”
Tasnim
Attorney
I was very skeptical in paying for the program, but I can safely and proudly say it has been and will be one of the best decisions I’ve made in many years. My kids are enjoying me to the fullest. I am much happier, calmer and content. I love my new self.
M.M
2019 Student & Mum of 4
Your Mentor
Zaahida Mahomedy – Live Inspired Academy
Featured on national Television newtworks like SABC 3, ITV on DSTV and various Radion shows like Channel Islam International, Al Ansaar, Salaam Media & more as well as the recipient of the Panache Women of Wonder Awards 2019, Zaahida is an Emotional Wellness & Business Mentor, Life Coach, BodyTalk Practitioner, Motivational Speaker and founder of the Live Inspired Academy.
Having worked with thousands of clients over the years to help them heal and transform their lives and relationships, Zaahida is now revealing her secrets so that you can have access to powerful strategies to transform your life and relationships.
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